16 - Insights from GrandMother

LIFE LESSONS not CAREER LESSONS From Grandmother 

16 - Unspoken teachings of  Grandmother

जीवन is not about judging right and wrong, 
जीवन is not just about action, emotional drama, or thought processes unless they serve a higher purpose,
जीवन is not about winning or losing, what is the use of winning the universe & losing the soul,
जीवन is not just about pain and pleasure, both serve for learning and evolving,
जीवन is not about dwelling in the past or anticipating the future, but learning from the past and building the future by planning for the best but ready for the worst, and enjoying what you do in the present moment,
जीवन is given सनातन धर्म to you, for her given सनातन धर्म was taking a stand to protect members of the family that needed her most,

जीवन is about taking care of the members of the family who need her most,
जीवन is about sustainable, fair, and just actions that benefit everyone now and in the future,
because you and we are connected in space and time, (we depend on everything in HereNow and we will be reborn to our future generations),

She never acted, spoke, emoted, reasoned, or been

 in the state of ego, but only out of 

service for those who needed her most,

She was a paragon of virtue, 

very difficult to understand, 

much more difficult to follow.

She took on discomfort and conflict for the purpose of what she always believed in,

But for you, discomfort and conflict were forced upon you unknowingly,

At least you should realize you should be very true to your life experiences, if not for any grandiose ideals or philosophies.

Ironically, it seems that she was never emotionally attached to things, people, or philosophies, but had an unspoken, unwavering devotion to purpose in life.

Grandmother's support taught us wisdom , dedication to good, meaningful education, rising awareness, grit, and the opportunity to live in a city.

She rarely expressed a kind word (and never ever unkind word neither), but her जीवन is insight into what GOD would be like.

"Always forever cherish the people who were there for you when no one else was." - Power Of Positivity

No one is perfect,

But the inner character reveals

in hopelessness

When caring calls, then feminine qualities arise;

When responsibility calls, then masculine qualities arise;

These are qualities of a holistic person and a holistic being;

Grandmother showed, without spoken word, what responsibility was, with the sole intention that it would be paid forward, without any expectations, no matter how huge the cost was;

Grandmother showed, without spoken word, what caring was, with the sole intention that it would be paid forward, without any expectations, no matter how huge the burden was.

Love can surely be experienced, rarely taught,

Compassion can surely be experienced, rarely taught,

Kindness can surely be experienced, rarely taught,

Moral Behavior can surely be experienced, but rarely taught,

Grandmother showed, through her experience, what being ROYAL means to her own family.

People think love at an intellectual, physical, and emotional level is give and take, I think spiritual love is contactless, total devotion.

THESE kinds of character qualities

cannot be taught through moral studies, but also mostly through observing and imitating

TRUE PERSONAL experience.

Der Charakter eines Menschen ist nicht immer perfekt,

aber schon in jungen Jahren

hat Großmutter ihm edle Absichten und alle Erfahrungen vermittelt,

die ihm helfen,

das ganze Leben lang den Fokus zu behalten.

A person's character isn't always perfect,

But from an early age, 

Grandmother instilled 

noble intentions and every experience,

that help keep focus,

throughout life.

Positivity doesn't mean Acceptance 

of Anything and Everything, 

But just realizing that people 

are full of colors, and being 

attached to only what is necessary 

to remain clear and positive.

Dear Grandmother, BLESS to wake ME up, 

to  avoid me chasing waterfalls and 

bless in next lives to build character for SATTVA intentions. 

Grandmother fought for her family when needed,

Grandmother cared for her family when needed​,

GRANDMOTHER was HOLISTIC like KING, not QUEEN 

A PERSON ready to offer their 

last breath for family is HOLISTIC 

as KING, not QUEEN. 

(QUEEN only looks for and gives affection

but STANDS BACK in a FIGHT).