Insights from जीवन of Our GrandMother

जीवन is not about judging right and wrong, 
जीवन is not just about action, emotional drama, or thought processes unless they serve higher purpose,
जीवन is not about winning or losing, what is use of winning the universe & losing the soul,
जीवन is not just about pain and pleasure, both serve for learning and evolving,
जीवन is not about dwelling in past or anticipating future, but learning from past and building the future by planning for best but ready for worst, and enjoying what you do in the present moment,
जीवन is given सनातन धर्म to you, for her given सनातन धर्म was taking stand to protect member of family that needed her most,

जीवन is about taking care of member of family that needed her most,
जीवन is about sustainable, fair and just actions that benefit everyone now and in future,
because you and we are connected in space and time, (we depend on everything in HereNow and we will be reborn to our future generations),

She never acted, spoke, emoted, reasoned, been in of state of ego but only out of service for ones who needed her most,

She was paragon of virtue very difficult to understand, much more difficult to follow.

She took on discomfort and conflict for purpose of what she always believed in,

But for you, discomfort and conflict were forced upon you unknowingly,

At least you should realize you should be very much true to your life experiences if not for any grandiose ideals or philosophies.

Ironically it seems that she was never emotionally attached to things, people, philosophies but unspoken unwavering devotion to purpose in life.

She rarely expressed a kind word (and never ever unkind word neither), but her जीवन is insight into what GOD would be like.

"Always forever cherish the people who were there for you when no one else was." - Power Of Positivity

None is perfect but,

Inner character reveals

in hopelessness

When caring calls, then feminine qualities arise;

When responsibility calls, then masculine qualities arise;

These are qualities of a wholistic person and wholistic being;

Grandmother showed, without spoken word, what responsibility was, with sole intention that will payed forward, without any expectations, no matter how huge cost was;

Grandmother showed, without spoken word, what caring was, with sole intention that will payed forward, without any expectations, no matter how huge burden was.

THESE kind of character qualities

cannot be ONLY passed on through moral studies 

but also TRUE PERSONAL experience.